Etiquette

To avoid misunderstandings, please read this in its entirety. Keywords are bolded for your convenience. I am newbie-friendly, but please pay careful attention to my policies.

Do not:

  • Send false information on the screening form.

  • Show up to our date intoxicated.

  • Disrespect, disregard, negotiate, cross (or threaten to cross) my boundaries.

  • Threaten my safety.

  • Negotiate the rate.

  • Engage in explicit communication, or communication that insinuates I participate in illegal activities.

If any of the actions listed under “Do not” are committed, I will consider that grounds to end our date without a refund.

A date, from beginning to end

  • Before filling out my screening form, get to know me to see if you vibe with me! Also, peruse this etiquette and FAQs. After reading, check out my rates and policies.

  • Please be prepared to provide your legal name, real phone number, email, and employment information or ID. References aren’t required but are appreciated. The screening form is the “Book me” button. Due to work, school, and personal life, it can take 24-72 hours to get a reply, especially since I don't have an assistant. I appreciate your patience as you wait! This applies to screening forms and emails.

    If you submit an ID, it must be a government ID. Please take a picture holding it. You may block out information, but I need to see your DOB, picture, name, and that your face matches your photo. If you choose to verify with an ID, to get the quickest reply possible, please send me a photo of you holding your ID as soon as you complete the booking form to kylie@meetkylienoble.com Not doing so can cause a delay in your screening.
    Note: If you are having difficulty taking a photo, you can send a photo of you holding your ID so your photo is visible and then a separate photo of just your ID.

    If you submit employment information, it must be active, and include a photo of yourself. An active profile shows signs of use and has an extensive activity history. Signs of use include comments, posts, a bio, a photo, and more.

    Screening and booking will be conducted via email. If you want to see me soon, it is essential to Cashapp me $180 (with no note). This serves to notify me and to help screen you faster/bump you up in the queue. Make sure you fill out the form when you send the fee. Please see the Rush Fee information in Experiences for more information.

    Please include an alternative number or specify if I can reach out to the one you supply me with; I reach out to your number unless I have explicit permission. This is used if I cannot get ahold of you. This can be put in the additional information section, as well as a little bit about yourself, the date agenda, or anything to help us schedule. I love learning a bit about you before the date, so don’t be afraid to introduce yourself as long as its not explicit or sexual in nature

  • After I successfully screen you, we will schedule a date to meet at a reputable hotel. I don’t meet at personal residences. When booking an incall, I try to get a 4-star hotel (but may go for a 3-star… I love a place with mirrors and/or a big tub!) and do my best to create a comfortable and romantic environment. If you book a luxury incall, I get a room at a boutique hotel in a premium room, the Weber or the Shinola. It is typically cheaper to let me book this room as I will cover a portion myself.

    If you would like to meet at a location that is farther than 45 or so minutes away from me, I charge a driving fee. I would love to drive to you if you pay this fee! It changes based on multiple factors, so inquire to figure out what it will be.

    Scheduling may take some back and forth but it is quick when you include additional details and have quick replies. The chosen dates and times don't always work out so it’s important that you respond so we can find a time that does. If you don’t hear back from me, make sure to check your spam folder, or reach out to me.

    In order to finalize your booking, you will need to send a deposit. This goes towards your entire amount, so you only owe what remains after the deposit. You may send a deposit via Cashapp, Wishtender, Venmo, Amazon gift card, or bitcoin. See the below question to view account information! Please leave the note blank. Not doing so threatens my account.

    I prefer extended dates, dates in Ann Arbor, and dates in fancy rooms. These dates get priority. If you would like to ensure you get seen, book at least a 2-hour appointment, book it in Ann Arbor, or better yet- do both!

  • I require a non-refundable deposit.The options are:Cashapp, at $leepyqt. Venmo, @meetkylienoble. Bitcoin via cash app at $leepyqt. Amazon/visa gift card sent to kylie@meetkylienoble.com. Cash mailed to a PO box. I must receive it before our date.

    The rest of the rate must be paid in cash or bitcoin.

  • Yes! I love gifts. They make me feel special, especially when I can tell you put thought and consideration behind the gift and got me something you know I would want. This makes me excited for the date, to meet you, and to make you feel special in return.

    I always appreciate gifts from my wishlist. Otherwise, cash, food, cat toys, and useful/practical gifts are good. I love all food, but I am especially partial to savory items. I don’t have much of a sweet tooth, but I do love truffles. You can also check out my Anilist for some nerdy gift ideas!

  • If we are going on a public date first, or if you booked an incall, I ask that you place your payment in a gift, such as flowers, a book, a card, or any other creative gift.

    When we meet in private first, I ask that you leave the rest of the rate in plain view (not in an envelope or behind something). I will look at your payment while you shower or bring it into the washroom with me; I don’t like to be observed while I count!

    At the beginning of our date, I will ask you to shower. This is included in our time. I ask that you take at least 5 minutes in the shower. You can always expect me to be clean and hygienic; I expect the same of you. This does not mean you have to shave; just be clean. This is also so I can check your payment.

    You can expect me to focus on you the whole time; I will only use my phone if I want to show you something or if I need to check in with my safety buddy. You can also expect me to make any boundaries clear. This time is yours- If you want to say something or do something, let me know! No judgment or shaming from me :)

    I expect you to be honest and clear with your communications and boundaries, just as I am to you. This includes any health needs that would make it easier to have a comfortable and safe time.

    For any excursions, whether they be food-related or not, I expect my portion to be paid for. Please note that all dates 4 hours or longer require a meal. For dates that are shorter, snacks are appreciated but not required.

    I welcome in-date extensions, but please note that it is more costly (500/hr) to extend within our date than out! I strongly encourage longer bookings if you are on the fence. My clients often express regret that they didn’t book more time!

  • I am open to being used as a reference if we have seen each other within the last 6 months. Please notify me and let me know before giving out my information to others. I take your privacy seriously, so if I get a reference request without hearing from you I will ignore it. Additionally, I always appreciate tips for this service!

  • I prefer our time to be only ours. I try to be as discreet as possible and do my best to make clients happy. I expect the same discretion out of you. I love what I do, and that comes through when I am with you. Knowing this, I encourage you to reach out to me with any concerns or grievances you may have.

FAQs

  • I offer date packages where you can save money if you buy multiple dates at once. Find more on my packages page.

    I also offer a $200 discount for women who book me for solo dates and a $350 discount for WLW relationships who book.

    If you are a fellow provider, I offer you a separate rate of $100 an hour. Whether you would like to gain some experience or you’d like to pick my brain, I would love to chat with you!

  • Yes! I keep your information confidential and secure. I don't share it with anyone. It is collected via Squarespace and our correspondences are stored on Protonmail, only so I know who you are for future escapades. Even if you get on my nerves or fill out my form ncorrectly, I just refuse to see you. The only case in which another person would be privy to your information is via a reference request, which you have full control over. Please see "using me as a reference" for more information.

  • I provide GFE, which stands for girlfriend experience. This is my default! I will make you feel comfortable and welcome the first date! I am my authentic self; you will get my vulnerabilities, clumsiness, and silliness, not some fake persona. Even though you are compensating me for my time, I retain the magic of it all— you won’t feel like I am just there for the money, because I am not. This is what the girlfriend experience is about; connection, emotional intimacy, and spice. We build a relationship, without the obligation and responsibilities of a wife/girlfriend; this is also why I prefer dates 3 hours or longer.

    For people who don't want that type of experience, I prefer appointments 2 hours or shorter and an additional tip.

  • What you see on my website is what you get, although my hair may be different. Typically, we start the date by talking and getting to know each other for a bit. I keep track of the time. We have fun possibly talk more, and then we bid each other adieu! If you want to know who I am as a person, read my about page!


    I am sex-positive, fetish-friendly, and a sex educator. I am kink-allied and have dabbled in BDSM myself! I am a huge advocate for educating others about safe sex, RACK, and SSC. I love discussing all things related to sex, and will listen without judgement, and with curiosity, educating you when needed.

    If you struggle with a medical condition, I am here to help you figure out how to be safe and have fun. For example, I'm HSV+ (I get cold sores). Unlike many, I consider myself a sex educator and can help you understand the proper precautions HSV+ people take. I would be delighted to answer any questions you have in order to help you understand safe sex or HSV (like, did you know it’s actually safer to be with someone who knows their status? I’d love to tell you why! And, did you know you can be asymptomatic and not know until you're 40 when you suddenly manifest sores? Bonkers, I know! Let’s talk about it!)

  • I try to accommodate when I can, which is why I have my rush fee of $90. I return the rush fee if I can’t do a same-day session. You can send this to $leepyqt. This serves to notify me and bump you up the screening queue. Please make sure to leave the note blank.

    If I am available but you cannot make it work, I will keep a portion of your fee as compensation for bumping you up the queue, and for the rush work.

  • Typically, I do not visit your residence unless we are already acquainted. However, I am happy to visit your home if you are a trusted regular/a trusted client whom I have seen previously. Your outcall location must be hygienic and free of other individuals.

  • No. Please only use the screening form I provided or send me an email with that information.

  • While I have some BDSM experience, it is not my expertise. If you are looking for a professional, I would suggest looking for someone who says they are a professional. That said, I am a switch and I have many things I’d like to explore such as CBT, Chastity play, sissification, denial, body part worship, and more.

    I am, however, very fetish-friendly! I love watersports, wrestling, body hair, exhibition/voyeurism, tickling, and more. If you would like to explore something, I can’t wait to talk to you about it!

  • There are a plethora of reasons why you may not have heard back from me within 24-72 hours or sooner.
    1) I may be busy with another client
    2) I may be busy on vacation
    3) I may be experiencing an emergency

    For the above, I do my best to keep you updated via Twitter.

    4) I may have gone to spam
    5) I have emailed you, but there was a typo in your address
    6) You’d like a rush appointment but haven’t sent me a fee

    For #6, please kindly send me another email with your information and/or your rush fee.

    7) You have breached etiquette
    8) You’re in a blacklist

    There may be more reasons, but these are the ones that come to mind first. I may tell you what etiquette you have breached of mine, but I will never tell you if you are on a blacklist, so please do not ask. If anyone tells you that information, you probably can’t trust them.

Client Resources

Sometimes lines are blurry, words are vague, and you just don’t know if you are doing it right or leaving something out. The following resources are intended for newbies, but all clients can learn something new!

  • Tryst Client Guide- From the client’s first-time booking to the myth of sex addiction, this blog covers a wide array of topics all intended to help the client be the best client they can be. I encourage new clients to look through this and ask me any questions they might have (with a little tip, of course!)

  • Jenna Love’s Etiquette guide- While this guide is Australia-oriented, Jenna does a great job of breaking down many of the concerns new clients have. Her guide is user-intuitive, simple, consumable, and thorough.

Sex education

  • Sexplanations- Sexplanations will forever be my favorite sex education resource. Dr. Lindsey Doe is a doctor of human sexuality and clinical sexologist who makes educational Youtube videos on consent, sex, health, sexuality, relationships, current research, and more. She is basically who I learned sex from! Some videos may be outdated because of how old it is, but I highly recommend this.

  • Watts The Safeword- This Youtube channel is one of my favorite kink-related resources, covering everything from bondage to sexuality and more.

Still have questions?

Reach out at Kylie@meetkylienoble.com

Deposit Policy

Deposits are always required to book with me.

A 25% deposit is required to finalize your reservation.

A 50% deposit to finalize FMTYs and dates 4 hours or longer

Deposits are non-refundable. I will return it if I have to cancel.

Deposits are done through cash app (with bitcoin or cash), Amazon Giftcard to (sent to Kylie@meetkylienoble.com), and Venmo (the deposit includes their fee of 1.9%+$0.10). Please leave any notes blank; including date information can be grounds for date cancelation. After a deposit, the rest of the rate can be paid at the date.

This policy is non-negotiable.

Cancellation Policy

If you cancel within 48 hours of our date but would like to be seen in the future, please be ready to pay a cancellation fee.

Reach out to me to determine what this will be, typically between $200-$1000, depending on the length of the date you booked. If you reschedule a date within the next 4 weeks, a portion of the cancellation fee will apply to that session.

If you no call, no show, I will just not see you again. I may consider it if you give me and my cats all a cancellation fee. By the way, I have two cats.

If I must cancel our date for any reason, you will either have the option of a full refund of your deposit or apply it to a future date. This policy is non-negotiable.