Etiquette

To avoid misunderstandings, please read this in its entirety. Keywords are bolded for your convenience. I am newbie-friendly, but please pay careful attention to my policies.

Do not:

  • Send false information on the screening form.

  • Show up to our date intoxicated.

  • Disrespect, disregard, negotiate, cross (or threaten to cross) my boundaries.

  • Threaten my safety (via words or weapons).

  • Negotiate the rate.

  • Engage in explicit communication, or communication that insinuates I participate in illegal activities.

If any of the actions listed under “Do not” are committed, I will consider that grounds to end our date without a refund.

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Need a walk through of our date?

  • Before filling out my screening form, get to know me to see if you vibe with me! Nervous, or have specific questions? Fill out my form for a 15-minute phone consultation ($26). Also, peruse this etiquette and FAQs—even if you're not new to this, you'll learn something. After reading, check out my rates and policies.

  • Please be prepared to provide your legal name, real phone number, email, and employment information or ID via my The screening form , which is the “Book me” button. References aren’t required but are appreciated. This information is used to verify your identity. I do not contact anyone but you.

    Due to work and personal life, it can take 24-72 hours to get a reply, especially since I don't have an assistant. I appreciate your patience as you wait! This applies to screening forms and emails.

    If you submit an ID, it must be a government ID. Please take a picture holding it. You may block out information, but I need to see your DOB, picture, name, and that your face matches your photo. If you choose to verify with an ID, to get the quickest reply possible, please send me a photo of you holding your ID as soon as you complete the booking form to kylie@meetkylienoble.com Not doing so can cause a delay in your screening.
    Note: If you are having difficulty taking a photo, you can send a photo of you holding your ID so your photo is visible and then a separate photo of just your ID.

    If you submit employment information, it must be active, and include a photo of yourself. An active profile shows signs of use and has an extensive activity history. Signs of use include comments, posts, a bio, a photo, and more.

    Screening and booking will be conducted via email. If you want to see me soon, it is essential to venmo me $184 (@meetkylienoble). This serves to notify me and to help screen you faster/bump you up in the queue. Make sure you fill out the form when you send the fee. Please see the Rush Fee information in Experiences for more information.

    Please include an alternative number or specify if I can reach out to the one you supply me with; I don’t reach out to your number unless I have explicit permission. This is used if I cannot get ahold of you. This can be put in the additional information section, where you might also put little bit about yourself, the date agenda, or anything to help us schedule. I love learning a bit about you before the date, so don’t be afraid to introduce yourself as long as its not explicit or sexual in nature

    If you are hesitant of using my booking form, please provide all the required details in email and send it to me that way; text is not good for this!

  • After I successfully screen you, we will schedule a date to meet at a reputable hotel. I don’t meet at personal residences. When booking an incall, I try to get a 4-star hotel (but may go for a 3-star… I love a place with mirrors and/or a big tub!) and do my best to create a comfortable and romantic environment. If you book a luxury incall, I get a room at a boutique hotel in a premium room, such as the Weber or the Shinola. It is typically cheaper to let me book this room as I will cover a portion myself.

    If you book an extended date, I can handle any reservations for discretion purposes, but please let me know!

    If you would like to meet at a location that is farther than 45 or so minutes away from me, I charge a driving fee. I would love to drive to you if you pay this fee! It changes based on multiple factors, so inquire to figure out what it will be. View my Travel page for more info.

    Scheduling may take some back and forth but it is quick when you include additional details and have quick replies. Note: this is not a time for idle chit chat and getting to know each other. Save this for the date! This if for planning and getting down the details. If you'd like to chat about non-date related things, please schedule a phone call.

    The chosen dates and times don't always work out so it’s important that you respond so we can find a time that does. If you don’t hear back from me, make sure to check your spam folder, or reach out to me.

    In order to finalize your booking, you will need to send a deposit. This goes towards your entire amount, so you only owe what remains after the deposit. You may send a deposit via Wishtender, Venmo, Amazon gift card. There may also be fees which are collected separately from a deposit, although at the same time. See the “Do you accept __ for payment” for information on how to pay. Please leave the note blank. Not doing so threatens my account.

    I prefer extended dates, dates in Ann Arbor, and dates in fancy rooms. These dates get priority. If you would like to ensure you get seen, book at least a 4 hour appointment, book it in Ann Arbor, or better yet- do both!

  • I require a non-refundable deposit. The options are: Venmo, @meetkylienoble. Amazon gift card sent to kylie@meetkylienoble.com. Venmo does have a fee, so please reach out to me or use this formula to calculate it yourself:
    X = Y - Y * 0.019 - 0.1
    X = 0.981Y - 0.1
    X + 0.1 = 0.981Y
    Y = (X + 0.1)/0.98

    x= what I should charge minus the fee on what I should charge
    y= what to charge

    The rest of the rate must be paid in cash

    Please leave the rest of the rate in open view if in private, or in a gift/envelope if meeting in public

  • Life happens! Please let me know as soon as you know that you need to cancel! If it is past the 48 hour window, I may request a cancellation fee. If we can reschedule within a month and you give me adequate time, you do not have to pay another deposit.

    For urgent cancellations (within 72 hours of a date), so that I get the news as soon as possible, please text me (734-743-9080) and/or send me a small tip with weird emoji so I know to check my email. I can refund it if you want, I just want to know as soon as possible. This is because it can take me up to 72 hours to check my email, and my number doesn’t reliably get texts and calls (so the tip is the most reliable.)

  • Please do not bring any weapons into our space. If you have weapons, I expect you to leave it in your car or at home. On this same note: please do not bring cameras into the space. Due to technologies that make hidden cameras hard to spot, I may examine anything may be a hidden camera such as: glasses, buttons, pens, outside food/drinks, watches, etc. It may be better to just not bring those things.

    If we are going on a public date first, I ask that you place your payment in a card, or in a gift such as flowers, a book, or a more creative item if you can think of it! When meeting for a public date, I will let you know what I am wearing so we can find each other easily. You may find that its like we are friends that haven’t met in a long time. Also, I love hugs.

    When we meet in private first, I will send you my room number 5-10 minutes before the date. You can it to me whenever. If you would like to meet me in the lobby, we can do that, but I will always send you instructions to the elevator to get to my room during an incall. As for the rate, please leave the rest of the rate in plain view in an unsealed envelope or give it to me in a gift. I will look at your payment while you shower, or bring it into the washroom with me; I don’t like to be observed while I count!

    At the beginning of our date, or at some point during an extended date, I will ask you to shower. This ensures our time is comfortable and embarrassment-free. Use that time to freshen up and make sure you are free of sweat, deodorant, or lint. This is included in our time. I ask that you take at least 3 minutes in the shower. Meeting a provider can be very nerve inducing and therefore sweat inducing, so take advantage of this time to prepare yourself in both body and mind. This time is also essential for me to situate my belongings.

    You can always expect me to be clean and hygienic; I expect the same of you. This does not mean you have to shave; just be clean.

    You can expect me to focus on you the whole time; I will only use my phone if I want to show you something or if I need to check in with my safety buddy. You can also expect me to make any boundaries clear. This time is yours- If you want to say something or do something, let me know! No judgment or shaming from me :)

    I expect you to be honest and clear with your communications and boundaries, just as I am to you. This includes any health needs that would make it easier to have a comfortable and safe time.

    For any excursions, whether they be food-related or not, I expect my portion to be paid for. Please note that all dates 4 hours or longer require a meal. For dates that are shorter, snacks are appreciated but not required.

    I welcome in-date extensions, but please note that it is more costly (500/hr) to extend within our date than to originally book more time! I strongly encourage longer bookings if you are on the fence. My clients often express regret that they didn’t book more time.

    At the end of the date, you may want to shower again. Before you leave, I will thank you for your time and remind you of the ways you can tip me. This isn’t required, but its great etiquette and always appreciated!

  • Yes! I love gifts. They make me feel special, especially when I can tell you put thought and consideration behind the gift and got me something you know I would want. This makes me excited for the date, to meet you, and to make you feel special in return.

    I always appreciate gifts from my wishlist. Otherwise, games, cash, food, cat. nerdy gifts, and useful/practical gifts are good. I love all food, but I am especially partial to savory items. I don’t have much of a sweet tooth, but I do love truffles and good chocolate. View my about page for more gift ideas! You can check out my Anilist for some nerdy gift ideas.

  • While I do not permit you to show up intoxicated or high, you may choose to indulge in these activities once we have chatted.

    As for me, I may indulge in a drink or two, but nothing more than that, unless with a trusted sober friend! Additionally, I love being a tripsitter or a sober friend in general.

  • I am open to being used as a reference if we have seen each other within the last 6 months. Please notify me and let me know before giving out my information to others. I take your privacy seriously, so if I get a reference request without hearing from you I will ignore it. Additionally, I always appreciate tips for this service!

  • I prefer our time to be only ours. I try to be as discreet as possible and do my best to make clients happy. I expect the same discretion out of you. I love what I do, and that comes through when I am with you. Knowing this, I encourage you to reach out to me with any concerns or grievances you may have.

  • The easiest way to book again, or book after you've been screened, is to fill out the booking form. This is the most convenient for me.

    You may also email me all the necessary info (preferred times, place, duration, incall, etc).

FAQs

  • I provide GFE, which stands for girlfriend experience. This is my default! I will make you feel comfortable and welcome the first date! I am my authentic self; you will get my vulnerabilities, clumsiness, and silliness, not some fake persona. Even though you are compensating me for my time, I retain the magic of it all— you won’t feel like I am just there for the money, because I am not. This is what the girlfriend experience is about; connection, emotional intimacy, and spice. We build a relationship, without the obligation and responsibilities of a wife/girlfriend; this is also why I prefer dates 3 hours or longer.

    For people who don't want that type of experience, I prefer appointments 2 hours or shorter and an additional tip.

  • An escort is a master in curating an experience; an eager and intelligent social companion.

  • I try to accommodate when I can, which is why I have my rush fee of $184. I return the rush fee if I can’t do rush session. This serves to notify me and bump you up the screening queue. Please send a booking form alongside this fee. It's best etiquette to send this before asking what my availability is, or to specify availability in the additional info section of my booking form. Please make sure to leave the note blank.

    If I am available but you cannot make it work, I will keep a portion of your fee as compensation for bumping you up the queue, and for the rush work.

  • Yes! I keep your information confidential and secure. I don't share it with anyone, nor do I contact anyone but you. It is collected via Squarespace and our correspondences are stored on Protonmail, so I know who you are for future escapades. I may pursue legal action if you were to steal from me, become violent, or worse. The only other case in which another person would be privy to your information is via a reference request, which you have full control over. Please see "using me as a reference" for more information.

  • While I would love to try your homemade food, for my safety, I cannot accept open food containers, beverages, or anything prepared outside of my view.

    There are plenty of restaurants and grocery stores where we can pick up snacks and/or meals! Or, we can always DoorDash.

    There are some snacks that you can bring, like grapes, cheese-its, or nuts that can’t really be tampered with.

    As for food I like, I love savory foods! I do like sweets, but be prepared to eat it with me (unless it’s custard, then it’s all mine).

    If you are uncertain about food plans, just ask me once we have a date scheduled!

  • There are a plethora of reasons why you may not have heard back from me within 24-72 hours or sooner.
    1) I may be busy with another client
    2) I may be busy on vacation
    3) I may be experiencing an emergency

    For the above, I do my best to keep you updated via Twitter.

    4) I may have gone to spam
    5) I have emailed you, but there was a typo in your address
    6) You’d like a rush appointment but haven’t sent me a fee

    For #6, please kindly send me another email with your information and/or your rush fee.

    7) You have breached etiquette
    8) You’re in a blacklist

    There may be more reasons, but these are the ones that come to mind first. I may tell you what etiquette you have breached of mine, but I will never tell you if you are on a blacklist, so please do not ask. Trying to gain information about this in general is a breach of etiquette. If anyone tells you that information, you probably can’t trust them.

    If you haven't from me sooner than 24-72 hours, I simply have a life. Be patient. If you have an urgent request, please send me a tip over venmo (@meetkylienoble) to notify me

  • What you see on my website is what you get, although my hair may be different. Typically, we start the date by talking and getting to know each other for a bit. I keep track of the time. We have fun possibly talk more, and then we bid each other adieu! If you want to know who I am as a person, read my about page!


    I am sex-positive, fetish-friendly, and a sex educator. I am kink-allied and have dabbled in BDSM myself! I am a huge advocate for educating others about safe sex, RACK, and SSC. I love discussing all things related to sex, and will listen without judgement, and with curiosity, educating you when needed.

    If you struggle with a medical condition, I am here to help you figure out how to be safe and have fun. For example, I'm HSV+ (I get cold sores). Unlike many, I consider myself a sex educator and can help you understand the proper precautions HSV+ people take. I would be delighted to answer any questions you have in order to help you understand safe sex or HSV (like, did you know it’s actually safer to be with someone who knows their status? I’d love to tell you why! And, did you know you can be asymptomatic and not know until you're 40 when you suddenly manifest sores? Bonkers, I know! Let’s talk about it!)

  • Typically, I do not visit your residence unless we are already acquainted. However, I am happy to visit your home if you are a trusted regular/a trusted client whom I have seen previously. Your outcall location must be hygienic and free of other individuals.

  • No. Please only use the screening form I provided or send me an email with that information.

  • While I have some BDSM experience, it is not my expertise. GFE is my expertise! If you are looking for a professional, I would suggest looking for someone who says they are a professional. That said, I am sex-positive and kink friendly. I am kink-informed and slightly equipped, so I can help explore and educate, but I am not going to fit the schema of a pro-domme. That said, I am a switch and have plenty of non-vanilla interests.

    I am also fetish-friendly! I love talking about watersports, wrestling, body hair, exhibition/voyeurism, tickling, and more. If you would like to know more, I offer a $25 consultation! This is a great way to see if we are a good match.

    Please keep in mind that when booking a session, you are booking for my time only.

  • As of July 31, 2024, my waist is 80 cm, my hips are 107.5 cm, my bust is 95 cm, my underbust is 83 cm, and my high hip is 94 cm. if you think this is outdated or needs more measurements, reach out, or lets go somewhere together to get measured!

  • I have a devoted dater card that I give to my, well, devoted daters! It is a punch card where you get the last one 50% off.

    I also offer a $200 discount for AFAB people who book me for solo dates and a $350 discount for WLW relationships who book.

    If you are a fellow provider, I offer you a separate rate of $100 an hour. Whether you would like to gain some experience or you’d like to pick my brain, I would love to chat with you!

    As an easter egg to those perusing my website: I offer date packages where you can save money if you buy multiple dates at once. Find more on my packages page. You cannot use this with the devoted dater card.

    Finally, I have a referral/word of mouth incentive! If you refer me to a friend and it results in a booking, you will get 5% off your next booking and your friend will get 5% off their first booking, up to $200. Just tell your friend to mention that you referred them in the booking form or intro email!
    Please note that other providers to not count; it has to be a fellow client of mine!

Have a thirst for knowledge?

Sometimes lines are blurry, words are vague, and you just don’t know if you are doing it right or leaving something out. The following resources are intended for newbies, but all clients can learn something new!

  • Tryst Client resources  - From avoiding scams, to the myth of sex addiction, this covers a wide array of topics all intended to help the client be the best client they can be and address possible concerns. I encourage new clients to look through this and ask me any questions they might have (with a little tip, of course!)

  • Jenna Love’s Etiquette guide- While this guide is Australia-oriented, Jenna does a great job of breaking down many of the concerns new clients have. Her guide is user-intuitive, simple, consumable, and thorough.

  • Sex worker self-care kit- This is a great accumulation of self-care tips from boundary setting to book recommendations for people in the industry.

Sex Education Resources

  • Common herpes myths- Myths and facts of herpes! Don’t forget to check out their “Chances of Contracting Herpes from an Infected Person” article.

  • How herpes got its stigma- A short article on how HSV stigma was created by pharmecutical companies. For a more in-depth read, check out How Herpes Became a Sexual Boogeyman

  • Sexplanations- Sexplanations will forever be my favorite sex education resource. Dr. Lindsey Doe is a doctor of human sexuality and clinical sexologist who makes educational YouTube videos on consent, sex, health, sexuality, relationships, current research, and more. She is basically who I learned sex from! Some videos may be outdated because of how old it is, but I highly recommend this.

  • Watts The Safeword- This YouTube channel is one of my favorite kink-related resources, covering everything from bondage to sexuality and more.

Still have questions?

Reach out at Kylie@meetkylienoble.com

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Deposit Policy

Deposits are always required to book with me.

A 25% deposit is required to finalize your reservation.

A 50% deposit to finalize FMTYs and dates 6 hours or longer

Deposits are non-refundable. I will return it if I end up unable to make the date.

Deposits are done through one of the following options: a gift card of my choice (sent to KylieNoble@proton.me), or Venmo (as long as you cover their fee via @meetkylienoble). The rest of the rate is in cash.

Please leave any notes blank. Including any business information is grounds for date cancellation.

This policy is non-negotiable.

Cancellation Policy

If you give me adequate notice, we can typically reschedule using your deposit. However, if you cancel within 48 hours of our date but would like to be seen in the future, please be ready to pay a cancellation fee.

Reach out to me to determine what this will be, typically between $200-$1000, depending on the length of the date you booked.

If you no call, no show, I will just not see you again. I may consider it if you give me and my cats a cancellation fee. By the way, I have two cats.

If I must cancel our date for a reason unrelated to etiquette breaches, you will either receive a full refund of your deposit or be able to apply it to a future date. This policy is non-negotiable.